The Psychological Aspects of Changing Your Sex

Here's what's happening on the HealthyPlace site this week:

Sex Reassignment - Changing Your Sex

Changing your sex, your gender, is a very complex, highly difficult situation. There are some people who have always "felt" like they were born the wrong sex (gender identity disorder)  and report that it has led to frustration, confusion and even depression for a large part of their lives.

However, making the transition to another gender isn't easy either. Transitioning carries with it the prospect of losing jobs, friends and family, as well as mockery from strangers who find the gender change visibly jarring, as some transsexuals will attest to.

In a USA Today story on the subject, the paper quotes Denise Leclair, executive director of the International Foundation for Gender Education, a Waltham, Mass.-based transgender advocacy group.

"You become a very visible minority," Leclair says. "The average male-to-female transsexual is taller, has bigger hands and feet, has more facial hair than most women. There are a lot of physical attributes that are hard to hide in a society that doesn't like you."

That's why American sex-change surgeons, adhering to their own code of conduct, won't operate until the patient has had a year of intense psychotherapy while living publicly in the new gender.   And even during or after the transition, there are some transsexuals who regret changing sex and then  go back to their original gender.

"The Psychological Aspects of Changing Your Sex" On HealthyPlace TV

Since the age of 6, Maxime, then a boy, wanted to be a girl. "When I shared this with my mother, she advised me to avoid speaking of it to anyone." At 18, he then underwent a sex change.  On  Tuesday's HealthyPlace Mental Health TV Show, we'll be examining the psychology of living as one gender and wanting to be another and what it's like after you've made the change.

In the second half of the show, you get to ask Medical Director, Dr. Harry Croft, your personal mental health questions. Watch the show on-demand.

continue story below

Coming in  August on the HealthyPlace TV Show

  • My Partner  Has Dissociative Identity Disorder.
  • Stress and Rewards  of Being an Alzheimer's Caregiver
  • Suicidality and Psychiatric Medications

If you would like to be a guest on the show or share you personal story in writing or via video, please write us at: producer AT

Click here for a list of previous HealthyPlace Mental Health TV Shows.

Children with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Did you catch the ABC News special report last week on children with extreme OCD? It was very compelling television as they actually let the cameras into the therapy room where you could witness first-hand how difficult life with OCD can be.

One case that stood out in my mind was a teenage girl who stayed away from her entire family because she thought they were contaminated. The girl was sitting on the couch and as her own mother inched her way from a nearby chair to the very end of the couch, the girl recoiled from fear.

After months of exposure and response-prevention therapy (ERP), she was barely, but successfully able to touch her mother's fingertip.

During the segment, a research doctor explained that the part of the brain that gives the "all clear" signal (that everything is okay) doesn't function properly in these children. He said researchers are trying to come up with medications that will correct that problem. In the meantime, extensive ERP therapy for OCD, is effective in helping these children.

More on Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Visit the HealthyPlace OCD Center where you'll find extensive information on Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. What is OCD plus symptoms, causes and treatment of OCD. And where to get help for OCD.

back to: Mental-Health Newsletter Index

APA Reference
Staff, H. (2009, August 11). The Psychological Aspects of Changing Your Sex, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2022, July 3 from

Last Updated: September 5, 2014

Medically reviewed by Harry Croft, MD

More Info