What Does a PTSD Flashback as a Body Memory Feel Like?
Flashbacks are one of the main symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), but many people haven't heard of a PTSD body memory flashback. I experience PTSD body memory flashbacks. Here's what they feel like.
Along with nightmares, movies and TV shows frequently use flashbacks to demonstrate the challenges of a character suffering from PTSD. From Chris Lyle's flashback-fueled meltdowns in American Sniper to Charlie's emotional memories in the Perks of Being a Wallflower, flashbacks are often the first symptom to come to mind when people discuss PTSD.
I first started getting PTSD body memory flashbacks when I was in college. Because my trauma lasted for so long, my flashbacks have been unique. I don't have a single, full-picture memory that plays out in my head as you see in movies. There are certain memories I experience in this way, but a lot of my traumatic memories are tucked away in my mind. Like many victims of child abuse, I have trouble remembering the details of my younger years.
Since there are a lot of holes in my childhood memories, I experience my flashbacks through body memories instead. Body memories can be described as somatic memories expressed through physiological changes to the body.1 Put simply, my body feels what it was feeling at the time of the traumatic event.
How a Body Memory Presents Itself
It differs depending on the trigger but my flashback body memories usually start with a hot flash. My body begins to sweat, my heart picks up speed, and small noises around me grow louder and louder. I get this sick feeling in my stomach that is similar to nausea but better described as the feeling of pure panic, like waking up and realizing you slept through an exam. My triggers for a body memory flashback can be anything from an angry tone of voice to the sound of a punching bag being hit at my gym.
For a long time, I wasn't aware that I was experiencing body memories. The feelings I get during these flashbacks are very similar to the ones I get during a panic attack. It was--and is--hard to distinguish the two symptoms from each other. My therapist eventually helped me see the connection, and understanding my body memory flashbacks has helped me understand my trauma better overall.
Dealing with Body Memories as Flashbacks
In a strange way, body memories help validate what I went through. The way I feel during a flashback is the same way I felt as a young girl trapped in a violent household with no way to escape. Remembering how I felt during my childhood helps me have empathy towards myself and respect for my healing journey.
Dealing with body memory flashbacks in the present can be difficult. The best way I have found to cope so far is to give myself space. My trauma happened at the hands of other people, so getting away from people is the first thing I do when I start to feel an episode happening. Going somewhere quiet and cool to let the body memory pass helps me calm down faster.
Everybody experiences flashbacks differently, and the way you cope with yours will be unique to you. While they can be painful reminders of your trauma, it is possible to learn how to live with them. Pay attention to how you feel during a flashback and give yourself what you need during that moment. Above all, be compassionate towards yourself. Self-love and self-acceptance are the first steps toward a peaceful life.
Have you experienced body memory flashbacks? What do they feel like to you? Leave your comments below.
- Bhattacharya, S., "The Lifelong Cost of Burying Our Traumatic Experiences." New Scientist, November 2014.
Avery, B. (2019, July 22). What Does a PTSD Flashback as a Body Memory Feel Like?, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2019, September 20 from https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/traumaptsdblog/2019/7/what-does-a-ptsd-flashback-as-a-body-memory-feel-like
Author: Beth Avery
Thanks for this.
I've been having this for about 15 years since I experienced a series of traumatic events when I was 14.
It's taken me such as long time to start to make sense of my flashbacks because they often don't come with a clear video or picture in my mind, rather a feeling of terror and pain that freezes my body as I interpret this as 'the world is ending', which is what I thought back then.
I'm just learning how to describe and share this experience with friends, family and professionals. It has been a painful, confusing journey but I'm very thankful to now be piecing it together and able to share, as I'm getting a lot of warmth and understanding from others even if they haven't experienced anything like it.